The Best Stay-at-Home Mom Schedule for Two Under Two

How To Create A Daily Schedule You Love

After nearly two years at home with my kids, I’ve finally found a stay-at-home mom schedule that keeps me productive while allowing me to truly enjoy each day.

Becoming a stay-at-home mom when my oldest was born was a dream come true. I had always hoped to stay home with my children, but I never thought it would be possible. While my husband and I have made financial sacrifices to make this lifestyle work, we both agree—it’s absolutely worth it!

Being the one to raise my kids every day, rather than sending them to daycare, is an incredible blessing. Watching them grow, teaching them new things, and soaking up every moment of our daily life is something I wouldn’t trade for anything.

What is a typical daily routine for a stay-at-home mom?

One of the greatest benefits of being a stay-at-home mom is the flexibility to create a schedule that fits your children’s needs each day. No two moms have the same routine, and even in my home, no two days look exactly alike. As children grow and their needs change, our daily routine naturally adjusts.

That said, my days do follow a general flow, even when the specifics change.

How to be a happy stay-at-home mom?

Being a stay-at-home mom can sometimes feel isolating and lonely and take a toll on your mental health, but there are plenty of ways to overcome this and find joy in your daily routine. Here are the strategies that help me make staying home with my kids both manageable and fulfilling.

1. Find mom friends.

Before my oldest was born, my husband and I moved to a new state without any friends or family nearby. Finding other moms who shared my values and interests took effort, but it was worth it. The easiest way to connect was by getting outside and meeting my neighbors. I also joined several local Facebook mom groups, where I met wonderful moms with children close in age to mine. Having other moms to share life with makes it even more enjoyable.

2. Exercise.

Every day, make it a priority to get some exercise. Some days, a simple walk around the neighborhood with the kids might be all you have time for—and that’s okay! I also enjoy doing YouTube workout videos in the evenings. It may seem counterintuitive, but staying active actually boosts my energy in the long run.

3. Get out of the house.

This one can be challenging with two under two, but it’s also one of the most important. A few times a week, I make it a priority to plan outings for myself and the boys. Meeting friends at the park is one of my favorites because it gives me a chance to spend quality time with other moms, too. Staying home for too many days in a row makes me stir-crazy, so getting out is a must! The nice thing about newborns is they can sleep just about anywhere, I like to baby wear or put him in a stroller if we are out at nap time.

4. Find the little things that bring you joy.

Make a list of all the little things that bring you joy, and start noticing them throughout your day. The more you focus on the good, the more you’ll find it. For me, watching the sunset and watering my plants are simple moments that bring me joy every day.

5. Rest.

Find a small daily activity that helps you recharge. Making a list of things that refresh you can be a great start—then, choose one to do each day. My favorite way to unwind is taking a relaxing bath after the kids go to bed. Anytime there is a pocket of extra time during your day, do one of the things on your list.

6. Pray and read the Bible.

Every evening before bed, I read my Bible and spend quiet time with God. This quiet time of reflection renews my soul, preparing me to sleep well and embrace the day ahead. This could also be done in the morning, but I’m not much of a morning person after being up during the night with a newborn.

Share these tips with a new mom in your life!

My stay-at-home mom routine:

The times listed are not the specific times I do these things, just general estimates. I always keep a flexible schedule that can be adjusted according to my family’s needs. Each day is a little different with young kids.

I don’t do screen time for my kids when they are this young, so you will not find that on this schedule.

3am-4am Baby wakes to be fed.

7am-8am Everyone wakes up for the day. Feed the baby immediately.

7:45am Prepare breakfast and make coffee. I try to make something that my husband can eat before he leaves for work, too.

9am-10am Baby naps. I take my toddler out for some outdoor play. This is our favorite one-on-one time during the day. We take care of the yard together, which is something we both enjoy. We always pull weeds and water the plants. (I have a baby monitor with good range, so I know if the baby wakes up while we’re outside.)

10am-11:30am Feed baby. Vacuum, clean bathrooms, change sheets, or do other household chores (I rotate the cleaning depending on the day of the week and what needs to be done). Free play for the toddler while I make lunch. The baby does tummy time or goes in the bouncer while I cook.

This is usually when we go to the park or meet friends a couple of days a week.

11:30am Lunch. Naptime for baby.

12pm-12:45pm Independent playtime for the toddler while I clean up. During this part of the day, I usually have enough time to do the dishes, start a load of laundry, and fold laundry if needed. (I prefer to start laundry in the afternoon so I can wash all the dirty burp cloths from that morning before they get stinky.)

12:45pm-1:30pm Play with toddler, and read books together before his nap. He gets really giggly during this time and loves to be chased and tickled. It helps get his energy out before his nap. This is a great time of day for spending quality time together before he sleeps.

1:30pm-3pm Toddler naptime. Feed the baby and spend one-on-one time with him. I love this time of day because the house is quiet and I get that special time with my baby.

2:30pm-3:30pm Baby naps.

3pm-5pm Independent play time for the toddler. Tummy time and playing on the mat for the baby. I prep and make dinner, then finish cleaning up.

Once a week, we go grocery shopping during this time.

5pm-6pm Husband gets home, and we have dinner together at the table. This is a great opportunity for quality family time.

6pm-6:30pm I clean the kitchen while my husband spends time with the kids.

6:30pm-7:30pm Bath time for both kids. My husband puts our toddler to bed, and I put the baby to bed. We each have our own bedtime routine that we do with them. I feed the baby again before he goes to sleep.

7:30pm-10:30pm Free time! I like to work out, then spend time with my husband until bedtime.

10:30pm Bedtime.

The Key to Loving Every Day…

When my oldest was around 9 months old, I began feeling overwhelmed and burned out. It seemed like I never got a break. Every day felt like I was constantly “on the clock,” and I struggled to find time for myself.

Then, I set a simple but powerful rule for myself:

“Once the kids are in bed, I’m done.” No more cooking. No more cleaning. No more responsibilities.

This small change transformed my experience as a stay-at-home mom. Instead of feeling exhausted, I started to truly enjoy it. Yes, I work harder during the day to get everything done, but the reward is worth it. I get hours in the evening to relax, unwind, and pursue my interests, without any mom guilt. Everything is taken care of, and I can finally enjoy some much-needed time for myself.

What are the must-dos in your stay-at-home mom daily schedule? Let me know in the comments!